Bonsoir mes amies, comment ca va?
I would love to wish you all happy new month, may it bring you joy and nothing
but joy. I was going through a friends blog and i was taken by the write up and
i felt i had to share. Read and be enlightened, enjoy the new month. I recently
listened to a sermon where the preacher spoke about the fact that a lot of
people who claim to be in love don’t have genuine claims. The reason was very
simple- “They were in love with a perception of their so-called “beloved”. Uhm,
are you thinking what I’m thinking? More often than not, when we claim to love
an individual, we base our claims on the fact that they are sweet, romantic,
complement our personalities, fun to be with, intelligent and the list goes
on. We get closer to them and begin to
see how awful they can really be, then we begin to give excuses like “we’re
incompatible”, “we were never in love”, “love is blind”, bla bla bla.
And so my questions to you today
are very simple- Evaluate your relationship now…
1. Are
you in love with him or a perception of him?
2. Do
you love him when he’s forthcoming and when he’s not?
3. Are
you willing to stick with him if things don’t go as planned?
4. Will
you still love him if he turns out not to be that “perfect” gentleman that you
hoped for?
Love is everything but blind.
Love sees the weaknesses and yet remains; love knows the good, bad and ugly but
chooses to be involved; love is not here today and gone tomorrow; Love always
remains. Don’t wait until you get into marriage before you realize that you
were just in love with a perception of him.
How do I do this? You might be
wondering. Get to know who he really is, spend as much time as possible with
him, find out who his friends are and keep them close and most importantly,
talk to God about him.
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