BETTER THAN ME FEELING

It was a rainy evening,all soaked in my favorite cream vintage oversized top and a short to match, i decided to check my twitter timeline and i read the post of a friend captioned
"WHY DOES IT RAIN WHENEVER I GET A CAR WASH" A follower replied:
"AND SO FUCKING WHAT, IS IT BECAUSE YOU HAVE A CAR" someone else was like "IS THAT ALL YOU HAVE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT...SMH" and it went on and on.
Now, here am i in the living room still soaked and in total disbelief of such negative comments to a friends honest displeasure about a reoccurrence when it rains. I was in no place to fight for her, that she was entitled to her displeasure and stating, however, i was itching to reply those poor fellas who did not view things from my friends perspective. So instead of putting them in their place of inferiority complex cloaked with discontent comment i came here.
This is what i who have written:
Fellas, our friend here is a hard worker and i can testify to that, if she feels sad about rain falling whenever she gets a car wash, she has all right to.  Why all these ranting, it is important you channel all that energy into hard work. You may not have a car now but that does not mean you would not get one. In good time my friends, all in good time. I myself was soaked when i read your  comments but i did not go typing... instead i was glad that my friend is already enjoying the benefit of success, smiled at her reoccurrence and got inspired to buy an aeroplane soon...
Pretty cool reply yeah? My point here is simple. Do not lash out at others because you feel they are better or more successful than you. Everyone has a window and it is important for that to be the focus point. Your roommate may have that model-cut figure, abs and sexy eyes but that does not mean you a plus size (i dare to say endowed) ain't better or of the same worth. Wherever you are, whatever the situation, whoever it is. You are you, be proud, love don't hate,nobody is better than you. When you see someone rising provide a ladder, when they are falling lift them up. 

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